Family sakinah, mawadah, and warohmah

Once, when he heard the lecture or prayer of the religious teacher-cleric (ah) for our family to become a sakinah keluara, mawaddah wa mercy I do not really know, what is meant by family sakinah, mawaddah wa mercy. I only know sakinah means calm, peaceful.
Slowly, I understand, sakinah means calm / peaceful, mawaddah means happy, wa = and, while the means have mercy mercy / love. That's it.
Until a few days ago when we discussed the story in a book about a young man who did not want to get married because they have not found the woman in accordance with the criteria added so many requirements of the prospective parents about the law.
According to the views of young people in the story, the girls of today are no longer running a lot to live according to Islam, from the clothes that do not close the genitalia, the appearance and the way bergaulnya a 'westernized', even to the passage of an un-Islamic way. Incidentally he grew up in the environment that Islamic friends who have married with Islamic women, but he himself does not come from a harmonious family. Her parents are always noisy, insisted the opinion of each and have properties that can not wait.
Finally, youths who happened to be a famous doctor was drowned with his work as a doctor and learn the Koran and the Sunnah of the Prophet's books and lectures.
One day, the young man listening to the radio that talks about the formation of a family goal, namely to establish a family sakinah, mawaddah wa mercy. During this time, youth or young doctors who come from families that lack of harmony is not too much attention to what the purpose of raising a family. The announcer then sang a verse of Al-quran.Iapun often hear verses from the letter of Rum (30:21) was: "And from the signs have been
I put myself to you mate-mate for you to be happy with her quiet life and love (mawaddah wa mercy). And it is the signs for men of understanding ". But only this time he noticed, to feel and appreciate the verse. Forming sakinah family, mawaddah wa mercy.
Since then, his opinions about life berkeluargapun changed. He then started paying attention and looking for potential wives. Long story short, he eventually married another of his students who look the other women disciples, wearing a robe, scarf and keep her social. Islamic study during this busy life has opened her heart and obtain guidance from God Almighty.
At the end of the lesson we cleric asked what the difference between mawaddah and mercy. We also are a variety of answers. Then ustadpun explained, mawaddah is the love of a husband, while mercy is the love of a wife.
Now obviously, what the family is sakinah, mawaddah wa mercy. Not only mean quiet and happy family, but there is something behind it, the need for love that is given by the husband to his wife and family, and love given by wives to their husbands and children.
Ustad then added, other family goals is to reduce errors even disobedience. For example, if before the family boys or girls singles can travel freely, then after a family of their activities is limited. There are other priorities that should they pay attention, namely the family.
So, if each family member busy with activities outside the home without regard to his family, then what's the difference married not married? Could the family created sakinah, mawaddah wa mercy if every person rarely meet and communicate?
Because some people have a family destination different from what Allah taught to us in the letter Ar Rum, which is creating a family sakinah mawaddah wa mercy. Although so far we have often read the verse in wedding invitations.

Twilight," A Forbidden Love Story "

Stephenie Meyer's first masterpiece is indeed phenomenal in their home country and other countries. The style is mixed thriller tells the romance genre and the action really fit. The story feels so real, as if you were Bella Swan! As if, vampires really exist in our world. But you do not trigger serem first, his vampire fangs Stephenie Meyer is not really. I salute him could bring teenage love story without even memorable lilting countrified, you will be stunned, envy, lulled, scared, upset, excited? it is definitely ... Can acung his thumb for Stephenie style in his first novel brought so directly nge-boom and became a bestseller. Let's look a little content in this book.

Bella Swan is not super pretty girl, she just ordinary girl who must live with his father in a small town filled with forests and trees. Yes, when Isabella Swan moves to Forks is grim, he never thought his life there will be the reverse that he imagined was that boring.

He met with one family of the brothers at the school was a very strange and did not mingle with other students. They are very fascinating to see, that girl is very beautiful and a very handsome-looking guy.

One of those who make it amazed because his eyes always stab him, that is Edward Cullen. Until finally she knew her and made her world turned upside down by the figure of an Edward.
With porcelain skin, eyes keeemasan, melodious voice and enchanting, Edward was very interesting figure which makes Isabella hooked. So far, Edwards has managed to conceal the true identity, but Bella is determined to uncover the secrets most kelamnya.

It's just that Bella did not realize the danger that awaited him, when the increasingly intimate relationship with Edward. Can Bella and Edward turned and left before it was too late and there was no way back for him?

This is a story of forbidden love. And like other illicit love, this love does not know the way back, in addition to being alive and well at the same die.

forbidden love takes sacrifice that is not suspected.

Crimes "Investigate the NII in Century Fund, Police Evidence constrained"

JAKARTA - Police Headquarters has not follow up on allegations that a number of money movements of Negara Islam Indonesia (NII) stored in the Century Bank.

Head of Public Information Police Headquarters, Police Sr. Comr Joey Boy Amar said the lack of legal facts is a constraint to follow up some of the information conveyed former NII officials.

"The flow of funds is still information so there is no sufficient preliminary data for the national police to ensure that there has been some money in the account on behalf of certain persons background NII activities," said Boy at Police Headquarters, Jalan Trunojoyo, South Jakarta, Thursday (12 / 5 / 2011).

He adds to conduct further investigation to the alleged banking thriftbox NII had no legal basis and legal facts. "If there is leading to new there will be no steps in collaboration with INTRAC, the bank concerned and permission from the Governor of Bank Indonesia," he explained.

Even so, he said, investigators would not stay silent respond to that information. The process of investigation remain to be done.

"Investigators can not jump up and down without any solid foundation. Info was not yet a legal fact, to be subject to examination by the legal facts and supporting documents," he said. (ful)

Tugas Softskill II

CAUSATIVE VERB “HAVE”

Causative “have” is followed by the simple form of a verb, not an infinitive. (causative “have” diikuti oleh verb 1 (tanpa tambahan s/-es), bukan diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)).

Examples:

-          I had John repair my bike. (CORRECT)

-          I had John to repair my bike. (INCORRECT,because it is followed by an infinitive)

è Kalimat ke 2 salah karena diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)

► “Have” gives the idea that “X” request “Y” to do something. ( “Have” menunjukkan bahwa “X” meminta “Y” untuk melakukan sesuatu.)

è The formula is: “X” has/have/had “Y” do something (simple form) (rumusnya adalah “X” has/have/had “Y” melakukakn sesuatu (verb dalam bentuk sederhana(verb1 tanpa tambahan s/-es)).

Examples:        - Mary has John carry her bag.

Means(artinya): John carried the bag because Mary ask him to. ( John membawa tas karena Mary menyuruhnya).

                        -I have Jane put my books

Means: Jane put my books because I ask her to.

-          Tom had Jane clean the room yesterday

è Using “had” because the adverb of time is yesterday. But still the verb is in simple form.

HAVE SOME THING DONE

(HAVE +Past Participle (Verb3)

The past participle(verb 3) is used after “have’ to give a passive meaning.

Examples:        - I had my watch repaired (by someone) yesterday.

Means: I caused my watch to be repaired by someone. (saya menyuruh orang lain untuk memperbaiki jam tangan saya kemarin).

            -I have my hair cut à means: I asked someone to cut my hair. (saya menyuruh seseorang untuk mencukur rambut saya)

            - I am having my car washed at the moment à means: I am asking someone to wash my car at the moment. (pada saat ini saya SEDANG menyuruh seseorang mencuci mobil saya.)

You have to know the different between Have something done and present Perfect/ past perfect form.

HAVE SOMETHING DONE:  I have my hair cut à means: I ask someone to cut my hair.

PRESENT PERFECT(S+HAVE/HAS+V3): I have cut my hair àmeans: you cut your own hair.

PATTERNS for HAVE SOMETHING DONE:

·         S + HAVE/HAS + OBJECT + VERB 3

·         S + HAD + OBJECT +VERB3 +PAST TIME

·         S + TOBE (IS/AM/ARE) + HAVING +OBJECT + VERB3 + NOW/RIGHT NOW/ AT THE MOMENT.

CONCLUSION:

-          Use active sentence for causative “have” (using simple form of a verb) and passive sentence for have something done (using verb 3).

-          For causative “have” à after subject you have to use the right form of “have” whether it is “have or has or had” then the object is people (someone), after that,you have to use a simple form of a verb (verb 1 without s/-es) in any kind of adverb of time (present time or past time still use simple form of a verb), you just choose the right form of “have” à “have or has” for present time, “had “ for past time.

-          For have something done just follow the pattern.

EXERCISES:

Fill in the blanks with the right form of causative have, and choose the right form of verb given in the brakets. (isilah dengan bentuk causative have yang benar, dan pilih salah satu bentuk verb yang benar yang diberikan di dalam kurung)

1.      We had  our treasury Bought  our new books yesterday. (buy / buys / bought / to buy)

2.      She has  her mom cooked dinner for her. (cook / cooks / cooked / to cook )

3.      He had his brother done  his homework last night (do / does / did / done)

4.      Tom is having Bill written  the report at the moment. (write / writes / writing / written)

5.      Mike has  Jenni saved  his data. (save / saving / saves / saved)

6.      Bob has his packages delivered by the postman. ( deliver / delivers / delivered / delivery)

7.      Eddy had_his data changed by his secretary last week. (change / changes / changed / changing)

8.      Marie is having her house painted by the workmen at the moment. ( paint / painting / painted / paints)

9.      Jonny has his car parked by the parking man. (park / parks / parking / parked)

10.  They are having their maid cleaned their room right now. (clean / cleaned / cleans / cleaning)

Tugas Softskill B.inggris

Tugas Softskill - Bahasa Inggris

QUESTIONS :

1. Bob said to me,"Mary is crying on my shoulder at the moment."
2. Tom said to me,"I don't want to eat this food."
3. Mary said to me,"I called my friend yesterday."
4. Bill said to me,"The children are planning to go to that new museum now."
5. Tom said to me,"I haven't called Mary since yesterday."
6. Joe said to me that he had been sitting there next to my house since two hours before.
7. John said to Mary that he had written all of their stories in his new book.
8. Jane said to me that she created her new painting in my room.
9. Tom said to me that he spent his time in this room.
10. Bob said to me that Anne didn't put the dictionary on that table.

ANSWERS :

1. Bob said to me that Mary was crying on his shoulder at the moment.
2. Tom said to me that he didn't want to eat that food.
3. Mary said to me that she had called her friend the day before.
4. Bill said to me that the children were planning to go to this new museum then.
5. Tom said to me that he hadn't called Mary since the previous day.
6. Joe said to me,"I have been sitting here next to your house since two hours before."
7. John said to Mary,"I written all of their stories in my new book."
8. Jane said to me,"I create my new painting in your room."
9. Tom said to me," I spend my time in that room."
10. Bob said to me,"Anne don't put the dictionary on this table."

Tugas Adverbial Clause

Adverbial clause
Adverbial Clause is a Clause (clause) which functions as an adverb, which describes a verb.
Adverbial Clause usually classified based on "the meaning / intent" of the conjunction (conjunctive that preceded it).
The types of adverbial Clause include:


1. Clause of Time
Clause which shows the time. Usually made by using conjunction (conjunctive) as after, before, no sooner, while, axles, etc..
Example:

    * Shut the door before you go out.
    * You begin May Pls (ever) you are ready.
    * While he was walking home, he saw an accident.
    * By the time I arrive, she will from have left.
    * No sooner she ENTERED Than Had he Gave an order.


2. Clause of Place
That show where clause. Usually made by using such conjunction Nowhere, nowhere, anywhere, Wherever, etc..
Example:

    * They sat down Wherever They Could find empty seats
    * The guard Stood Nowhere he was positioned.
    * Where there is a will, there is a way.
    * Where there is poverty, there We find discontent and unrest.
    * Go Nowhere you like.


3. Clause of Contrast (or Concession)
Clause which shows the contradiction between the two incidents or events that are related. Usually made by using conjunction (conjunctive) as although, though, even though, whereas, even if, in spite of, as the time, etc..
Example:

    * As the time you were the resource persons sleeping, We Were working hard.
    * Mary wanted to stop, whereas I wanted to go on.
    * Although it is late, We'll stay a little longer.
    * He is very friendly, even if he is a clever student.
4. Clause of Manner
Clause which shows the cars how a job is done or event occurs. Usually made by using conjunction (conjunctive) such as, how, like, in that, etc..
Example:

    * He did as I toll uterus.
    * You May finish it how you like.
    * May They beat us again, like They did in 1978.


5. Clause of Purpose and Result
Clause which shows the relationship intent / objectives and outcomes. Usually made by using conjunctions such as (in order) that, so that, in the hope that, to the end that, lest, in case, etc..
Example:

    * They Went to the movie early (in order) to find the best seats.
    * She Bought a book so (that) Could she learn Bahasa
    * He is saving his money so he he That May take a long vacation.
    * I am working night and day in the Hope that I cans finish this book soon.


6. Clause of Cause and Effect
Clause which shows the relationship of cause and effect. There are several patterns to form this kind Clause. Take a good look.
Example:

    * Ryan ran so fast That he broke the previous speed record.
    * It was so cold yesterday That I Did not Want To swim.
    * The Soup That Tastes so good will of everyone ask for more.
    * The Student Had he behaved so badly That was dismissed from the class.
Example:

    * The Smiths That Had so many children They formed Their own baseball team.
    * I had job offers so Few That it wasn't Difficult to select one.
Example:

    * He has invested so much money in the project That he can not abandon it now.
    * The grass received so little water That it turned brown in the heat.
Example:

    * It was a hot day Such That We decided to stay Indoors. OR It was so hot a day That We decided to stay Indoors.
    * It was Such an interesting book That he couldn't put it down. OR It was so interesting a book That he couldn't put it down.
Example:

    * She has Such exceptional Abilities That everyone is jealous of her.
    * They are Such beautiful pictures Want That everybody will of one.
    * Perry has Had Such bad luck That he's decided not to Gamble.
    * This Is Such That Difficult homework I will of never finish it.
In addition, to reveal the relationship of cause and effect (cause and effect) can be used in other patterns, namely:
1. Using the Preposition (preposition) like Because of, due to, due to the fact that, etc.
Example:

    * Because of the cold weather, We stayed home. (= We stayed home Because of the cold weather)
    * Due to the cold weather, We stayed home. (= We stayed home due to the cold weather)
    * Due to the fact That the weather was cold, We stayed home. (= We stayed home due to the fact That the weather was cold)
2. Using conjunctions (conjunction) as Because, since, now, that, as, as long as, inasmuch as
Example:

    * Because he was sleepy, he Went to bed.
    * Since he's not Interested in classical music, he decided not to go to the concert.
    * As she Had nothing in particular to do, she Called up a friend and asked her if she wanted to take in a movie.
    * Inasmuch as the two government leaders Could not reach an agreement, the possibilities for peace are still remote.
3. Using transition words like therefore, consequently.
Example:

    * She failed the test Because he Did not study.
    * Alex Did not study. Therefore, he failed the test.
    * Alex Did not study. Consequently, he failed the test.
Note:
Some can be changed into an adverb Clause Modifying Phrases by:
1) Eliminate the subject of the dependent Clause and the verb (be).
Example:
a. Adverb clause: While I was walking to class, I ran into an old friend.
b. Modifying phrase: While walking to class, I ran into an old friend.
2) If the Clause does not exist be an adverb, hilangkanlah change the subject and verb in the adverb Clause-ing it into shape.
Example:
a. Adverb clause: Before I left for work, I ate breakfast.
b. Modifying phrase: Before Leaving for work, I ate breakfast.
Clause adverb can be converted into Modifying Phrase Clause if the subject of the adverb and the subject of playing the same Clause.
Example:
1. Can be changed

    * While I was sitting in class, I fell asleep BECOME While sitting in class, I fell asleep.
    * While Ann was sitting in class, she fell asleep BECOME While sitting in class, Ann Fell asleep.
    * Since Mary Came to this country, she has made many friends BECOME Since coming to this country, Mary has made many friends.
2. Can not be changed

    * While the teacher was lecturing to the class, I fell asleep.
    * While We Were walking home, a frog hopped across the road in front of us.
7. Clause of Condition
Clause which shows the requirements between the two events (events) are related. Usually made by using conjunctions like if, even if, unless, in the event that, or in the event that, in case, provided (that), Providing (that), on condition that, if only, suppose (that), supposing ( that), etc..
Example:

    * If I see uterus, I will from uterus invite to the party tomorrow.
    * She Would forgive her husband everything, if only he Would come back to her.
    * Suppose (that) your house burns down, do you have insurance to cover Enough Such a loss.
    * In case a Robbery occurs in the hotel, the management must be Notified at once.
    * The company will from agree to arbitration on condition (that) the strike is Called off at once.
    * We Should Be Able to do the job for you Quickly, provided (that) you give us all the Necessary information.
By anitapurwanti

good experience

I tell you something about my best experience.
since I was little until I was experiencing this for a very happy life. A good many of my experiences that I experienced until I was able to differentiate between a good life and where life is not good.
I was given a very loving family I alhamdulliah, I was born in the family that embraces Muslim belief. I really love my family father, mother and sister. they are the one who has always been my motivator to struggle through life. they can not be replaced by anything in this world.
family is a place to shelter share despite difficult or happy, they will always be there to support me. although I've been at this I can not deal with big problems, only families who can help me. much love in my ancestry that I feel. Istruggled in this life only for my family and my life to come. When I get my birthday gift that I really do not think, I get a bike of my dreams is a Vespa scooter production in 1963.

after I get what I want, I am deeply grateful to my mom and dad. by using the motor I could walk into a place where I want it. me and my friends go out on the town of Anyer, bandung, bogor, Cikampek, purwekerto, jogja, semarang, surabaya, poor, Wonosobo, Lampung Palembang, Aceh, Riau, Bali, and many small towns that can not be in state one by one. the city's most memorable is jogja. I was there for a week walking to and fro to play and search for identity, whereas I am only eight motors gone but I can go home to fifteen motors, jd almost all of my friends took a motorcycle, we bought a motorcycle in jogja very cheap and guaranteed levels of original bike. there my friends down five motors for contest modifications and alhamdulliah three of us get champion motor. then we came home with a sense of pride and togetherness during the street. My motorcycle club name is skip scooter boy. That's the name that dawned dipikiran comrades as well. Thank God the number of members in our motorcycle club to reach seventy-five active motor. selogan club with our "no falsehood among vespa". with why we feel like a big family that is difficult in destroy brotherhood.

is not how much but I appreciate the concern for my family with what I want, the gift I have never forgotten the love that my parents provided to me. until now the gift I am well-maintained. I hope the gods give the best to myself and my family. hopefully with my short story, will be motivated to strive and thrive to live the rest of life in this world. thank my father and mother will be responsible for forwarding this life for the sake of the family .